In this episode, Scott Schimmel unpacks one of the most crucial questions every teen needs to hear: “What kind of person do you want to become?” With the growing pressure from academics, sports, social media, and societal expectations, kids today are more overwhelmed than ever—often chasing someone else’s dream without ever asking themselves what truly matters. Scott dives into mimetic theory, self-determination theory, and practical strategies for helping kids build autonomy, identity, and resilience. He explains how parents, educators, and mentors can foster internal motivation and help young people develop a meaningful vision for their lives—not just a plan. What You’ll Learn: Why kids are vulnerable to external expectations The impact of mimetic desire and social media How autonomy influences motivation and identity Practical ways to ask kids the right questions Why modeling your own personal vision matters

📌 Key Takeaway: Without a vision for who they want to become, kids are at risk of becoming a reflection of someone else’s idea of success.

🗣️ Let’s Talk! Have you ever asked your teen who they want to become? What answers surprised you? Share in the comments—we read them all.

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