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Belonging vs Fitting In: The Hidden Crisis in Your Kid’s Life

In this thought-provoking episode, Scott Schimmel explores one of the most critical and often overlooked questions in parenting and adolescent development: Who does your kid belong to?

As children grow and begin to pull away from their family units, they seek new communities of belonging — but not all belonging is created equal.

Scott walks us through: The psychological importance of belonging (vs. just fitting in) How social media distorts identity and connection

The dangers of chasing approval and acceptance at any cost

Practical tips for parents to stay connected during this critical time

Why dads have a unique role in modeling healthy relationships

How to build rituals of connection even as your child pulls away

Whether your child is entering adolescence or leaving for college, this episode will equip you with essential tools to stay a grounded, supportive influence in their life. Belonging is more than social—it’s a survival need.

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👇 Questions to ask your kid this week 👇

Who are your people?

Who accepts you as you truly are?

Where do you feel like you can be yourself?

Let’s build homes and relationships that become the safe havens every kid needs.

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